May Yul-Edochie, the wife of well-known Nollywood actor Yul Edochie, has finally spoken out months after her son sadly passed away, calling her situation the worst that a parent could ever go through.
It would be noted that her son Kambilichukwu, the couple’s first child and only 16 at the time, died in March 2023. He apparently collapsed during a football game due to a seizure, and all attempts to resuscitate him were unsuccessful.
Words are insufficient to adequately express our thanks to you all, May said in a lengthy tribute to her slain son with a picture of herself and her other three children. We think that this incalculable loss is heaven’s gain in all of these trials.
When you lose a husband, you are called a widowโฆ..
You lose a wife, a widowerโฆ.
You lose a father, fatherlessโฆ.
You lose a mother, motherlessโฆ
You lose both parents, an orphanโฆ
You lose a sibling, a โforgotten mournerโโฆ.
Other than vilomah which means โagainst a natural orderโ, I cannot find an English word for losing a child. I do not think thereโs any death as intense and painful as losing oneโs child. We are still in inexpressible grief, however, I want you all to know that we are fine by Godโs special grace.
โIndeed the uncertainty of tomorrow remains a mystery and some occurrences are unforgettable but we just have to find a way to live with them no matter how painful and difficult they are. The incredible love and support from you all my family, friends and well-wishers all around the globe through various means are unimaginable and unconditional. In recent times, we have experienced the most devastating and traumatic circumstances of life but your prayers have kept us going.
โMy friends and family have been a great pillar and helped me through the process in the most amazing ways. All the brands I represent have been kind and patient. Life left me in a state of resigning myself to fate with a meaningless and overwhelming feeling, but you, my amazing fans, stood by me even in my absence. This love is โGodโs graceโ and can only be described as both the wonder and awe of serendipity.
โWe truly appreciate and cannot thank you all enough, and sincerely hope that everything sums up into enabling us to stand the tragic loss and panic. We only have Godโs blessings to offer in return and pray that affliction will never rise in your homes in Jesusโ name. It is impossible to forget a child so heโll always remain the second of my four adorable children. Continue to rest in the bosom of the Almighty my sweet angel, Kambilnachukwu, until we meet again.โ